If you want to be with someone...

Do you have to conquer her?
i.e. Do you have to possess her?
i.e. Do you have to make her yours?
i.e. Do you have to "own" her all for yourself?

Somehow, it makes me wonder who you want to be with...
The living or the dead?

There is bare beauty in "eating" each other and feeling full rather than leaving each other a climactic void. How to do this is the real question.